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Modern family

1/30/2014

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   We humans tend to be a family-forming people. Even as blood families fracture due to death, divorce and dysfunction, we seek out others to form bonds and create a unit or team. Or we supplement a happy family with additional groupings that have a familial feel: a workplace team, a prayer group, a close-knit circle of friends. We rely on each other, nurturing and caring. Often we include other species; the family dogs and cats are as important as any child, parent or cousin.
   I have siblings and extended family, plus in-laws, but in the U.S. my primary family numbers four: Tom, me, and our cats Daisy and Kit. My family identity resides with them. A few times a year, though, I leave my family and come to stay on North Caicos. This island is a personal need that feeds my soul, even as I miss my family when I'm here alone.
   But I am not really alone. I have an island family, too.
   I realized that yesterday evening as I began to prepare dinner. My young Haitian friend Francesca arrived, schoolwork in hand. She sat at the table doing her math while I chopped and prepped, pausing when the bread machine beeped its ending and I coaxed the bread from its pan to cool. Strange gadgets like the bread machine, I gather, are among the reasons she likes to hang out here.
   Later, after Francesca's mother came and herded the child home, Addison arrived. He is a friend and caretaker of the house. As I put out Italian sausage and bread for dinner, it struck me that these semi-domestic scenes are, indeed, family-ness. Here on North, I have this odd, modern family of Francesca, Addison and longtime friend LynnRae. No less a family than one with a husband and two cats.

            

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    This blog by Jody Rathgeb has changed several times over the years and currently focuses on island living. It is also posted on Facebook as Beyond the Parrot Paradise.

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