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Ten reasons to go to the Turks and Caicos Islands RIGHT NOW:
 

1. Great weather. Yes, there’s great weather there almost all the time, but I have found May-June to be particularly wonderful at the beach. It’s warm enough for swimming, but not so warm that you’re taking a seawater bath, and the sandblasting winds of winter have become a welcome breeze.
2. Fewer people. The busy social scene of winter is over and you can enjoy the natural beauty in solitude.
3. Things are still open. Local businesses have not yet closed for the off-season, so it’s still easy to find restaurants and bars that are open, and the stores are still well-stocked.
4. I-Soon-Reach has joined the Turks Head Brewery family of beers (with Ain-Ga-Lie, Gon-Ta-Nort and Down-Da-Road) and needs sampling.
5. Even very rich spring-breakers tend to go elsewhere.
6. Trump drama.
7. Brexit drama.
8. Trudeau drama.
9. It’s pollen season in northern climes. Clear your head.
10. I don’t have a tenth reason. I simply claimed ten because that’s the listicle tradition (and for the record, I am not a fan of listicles but not above doing one). If you’ve got a number ten for me, please share!

 

 
I am an American, so I know the frustration and depression that can come from following the news. But most of us do so anyway, knowing how much current events can affect our little lives, from the condition of the roads we drive, to the taxes we pay, to how we can survive when we’re old and sick. We also follow the news because we want to be knowledgeable voters, so we can affect the things that affect our little lives, from the condition … well, you know. “I’m not political” isn’t something to be admired; it’s lazy, a cop-out, an abdication of personal responsibility.
 
Yeah, okay Jody, we get it, but what does this have to do with an island blog or the Turks and Caicos?
 
Well, folks, you may not like it, but unless you are the most casual and infrequent of tourists, it behooves you to put the same amount of attention you pay to American, Canadian, British or other politics into what’s going on in the TCI.
 
Indeed, there’s a lot going on. The Beaches resort is in a feud with the government over who owes whom large sums of money. The two political parties are assigning blame and/or taking credit for such things as new clinics that haven’t opened, fire trucks, a still-damaged dock and foreign investors who gain the fast track to citizenship. It can be hard to keep up with it all, and harder to maintain neutrality.
 
Sometimes, when I was bartending at Pelican Beach Hotel, one of the local guys would ask my opinion in a political argument. I would reply, “It’s not my country. No opinion,” which was a perfect answer for a bartender, but an imperfect position for someone trying to live in the TCI. Also, it wasn’t true. I was beginning to form opinions. I was listening and learning, not because I would be able to affect things, but because I sensed that it was important to know what was happening to me.
 
Things WERE happening to me, and they continue to happen to all of us … sunbirds, temp residents, work permit holders, frequent visitors and, of course, TCIslanders. All this stuff in the news will affect our plans for aging, how much we spend on travel, whether we can make a living, how easy it is to live that “easy life.” It’s all important to our little lives.
 
Pay attention.
 

As a freelance writer, I have been associated with quite a few magazines, from “Reptiles” and “River City” to “Teaching Theatre” and “Civil War Times Illustrated.” My longest and most fruitful association, however, has been “Times of the Islands,” published quarterly in the Turks and Caicos Islands. I started contributing to it in 1992, when the magazine was only six years old, and have been with it ever since … not in every issue, but fairly close to it.
 
There are lots of good reasons for this long association. First, I believe that as “regional” magazines go, TOTI is a cut above the rest. This genre, which includes city mags and competing publications in tourist areas, is usually all about the advertising. That’s understandable, because that’s where they make their money. But it also means that the magazine’s content is often skewed toward the moneymakers. “Features” focus on the businesses that advertise and are upbeat to a fault about big developers and any idea that comes out of the Chamber of Commerce (or tourist bureau). Some of these magazines have no firewall at all between advertising and editorial, and require writers to allow their material to be edited by the advertisers themselves.
 
“Times of the Islands” goes beyond that tit-for-tat arrangement, offering readers a look into island life that doesn’t involve dollars. Sure, there are upbeat reports on new resorts and some articles submitted by advertisers, but TOTI also has real articles about islanders, entrepreneurs and island history and folklore. Each issue includes the Green Pages, focusing on environmental issues, and the Astrolabe, the newsletter of the Turks and Caicos National Museum. There is a depth to this publication that rivals miss.
 
I have also stayed with TOTI because it has been good to me and for me. Its longtime editor (though not the first), Kathy Borsuk, has always treated me with professional respect. She pays me in a timely fashion (believe me, this is important to a freelancer!), doesn’t ask me to travel among islands without reimbursing me and thinks of me when ideas come up that are suited to my interests and style. It’s a good relationship that has blossomed into a friendship as well.
 
And being good for me? Wow! Because of TOTI, I have been able to see island life so much more deeply than I could when I first started visiting and writing about the Turks and Caicos. I got to meet so many islanders through my writing, and each one was a window into my new adopted home. Kathy said, “Hey, there’s this woman on North who’s a fisherman” … and Tom and I ventured into the Pink Squeeze and finally convinced Dar to let us tell her story. Because of my “Day in the Life” column that ran for a while, I ended up one day on South Caicos talking my way onto Ba Parker’s boat, then getting stuck on island and enjoying the hospitality of the School for Marine Studies. I’ve tromped through farms and gardens, warily handed over my credit card at Parrot Cay and bicycled to Bottle Creek (when I was younger) in pursuit of island stories.
 
I know that TOTI isn’t perfect (what business is?). It has standing sections that sorely need updating, there may be too much kowtowing to resort developers and its picture of the Turks and Caicos lacks any of the political conflict that certainly exists. But it keeps asking the important question: What is your story?
 
Because of this magazine, I have learned to ask that question, even when I’m not working, and even when I am not in the islands. That’s the question that allows us all to get to know people and places. Anyone attempting to live in the islands should burn that question into his or her heart. It is your entry.
 
Postscript: Times of the Islands is published quarterly. It is available at many places in the TCI and as a subscription. Visit www.timespub.tc for more info. The spring 2019 issue is now available.
 

I get it. There are some people who aren’t suited to neighborhood living, for one reason or another.

Maybe privacy is the reason. They don’t relish others recognizing their cars on the street or knowing their daily schedules and habits. They prefer anonymity over the prospect that the barista or bartender will know what they’re having, and are loath to give a full name or real name in casual encounters.

Or, maybe it’s shyness. They find idle chit-chat ridiculous or difficult, and prefer online contacts to interacting with real people.

Or, it could be fear. A neighborhood is full of people who might not be like them, some of whom might be threatening or harmful. Complete solitude, either out in the country alone or hidden in an urban crowd, seems safer.

Or, it’s just a difference in values. A perfect lawn is preferable to one loved by children or animals. The freedom to burn leaves at any time, no matter if a neighbor is hanging laundry or entertaining in the path of the smoke, is tantamount. Having a home gym means never having to wait or wipe down for someone else.

I get it. We’re all different, and some just aren’t neighborhood people.

Problem is, some of those not suited for neighborhoods think that island life is the solution.

News flash: Unless it is uninhabited by anyone else, each island is a neighborhood. Other people live there and it’s a community, like it or not. Others will know what you drive, where you go, who you talk to (and who you seem to avoid), how friendly you are and whether you contribute to the neighborhood or separate yourself from it. They will form opinions about you and treat you accordingly.

There are few secrets on an island. Sasha can tell you what Tom and I like for lunch and what beer we drink. Josh has us memorized, too. Marqui just waits for a nod, and brings my drink. If you socialize only with other ex-pats, the locals will know. If you keep your home as a fortress from all others, we all know.

I have watched as various people who don’t like neighborhoods move into the neighborhood. I’m interested to see how this works for them. Can you live on North Caicos without being a part of North Caicos?

Good question.